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What happens in a MIAM?
You can explain your circumstances, ask questions and receive a clear overview of how mediation works and what options may be available to you.
I am a family mediator registered with FMC as working towards accreditation and developing my practice in line with professional standards. I practise with an accredited Professional Practice Consultant (PPC) mediating child and financial cases.
Separation is never going to be stress-free but at VME Mediation, we offer a way to open communication channels and help you to move forward.
No judgements
No bias
No sides taken
Just a caring, neutral mediator who actively listens and helps you to put family first and work collaboratively towards finding common ground from which lasting solutions can be agreed.
WE SUPPORT YOU & HELP YOU MOVE FORWARD
WHEN LIFE CHANGES BUT FAMILY MATTERS MOST, WE ARE SUPPORT YOU & HELP YOU TO MOVE FORWARD
Why choose family mediation
A calmer way to move forward.
When family circumstances change, conversations can feel emotionally heavy and difficult to manage. Family mediation offers a calm alternative to conflict and the process is:
VOLUNTARYyou are here by choice and can withdraw if you need to
CONFIDENTIALhave your say without worrying about the repercussions
FORWARD LOOKINGfocus on the future not the past
WORKING TOGETHER RESPECTFULLYreduce conflict by working with the mediator to find solutions
FASTER and MORE COST EFFECTIVEthan a court process
LESS STRESSFULthan litigation
At VME Mediation, our focus is on creating space for better communication, reducing stress and supporting families to make informed decisions about the future.
LET US HELP YOU MOVE FORWARD POSITIVELY TO A HAPPIER FUTURE.
Who is family mediation suitable for & how can it help?
Support for families at different stages of separation.
Whether you are recently separated, seeking divorce or have agreed a settlement and then have encountered new difficulties prior to your divorce being finalised, mediation can offer you a way to resolve issues in a calm environment where conflict is reduced by the presence of the mediator as a neutral third party.
Family mediation can help resolve a wide range of family disputes, including child arrangements, financial matters and wider family issues.
Separation
Help to put emotions to the side and assess each person’s future needs.
Child arrangements
Shared time with parents including term and holiday time, special occasions, living arrangements and child welfare.
Financial arrangements
Assets and liabilities including savings, debts, property and pensions.
Pet arrangements
Agreeing shared time, because family separation from pets can be hard too.
Wider family issues
Family mediation can also assist with issues involving other family members, including grandparents.
What mediators do
Mediators facilitate communication and help you navigate your way through a stressful time.
What mediators do not do
Mediators do not give legal or financial advice and that should always be sought independently of mediation.
How long does family mediation take?
A flexible process shaped around your circumstances.
The process starts with an initial 45 minute MIAM for each participant. If your situation is suitable for mediation and both parties are happy to proceed, you will then move into mediation sessions.
Your mediation timeline
Mediation is not a one size fits all process. The time taken to reach accord or agreement will vary depending on your unique family circumstances.
45 mins
Initial MIAM
Mediation Information & Assessment Meeting for each participant.
2 hours
Typical session
Most mediation sessions last around two hours.
Low conflict
2–3 sessions
As a general guide, lower conflict cases may be resolved in two to three sessions.
Moderate conflict
3–5 sessions
Some cases require further sessions where there are more issues to work through.
Higher conflict
Can take longer
Higher conflict or more complex cases can take longer depending on the issues involved.
Need some advice first?
Message Us Today
Unsure if family mediation can help you?
Feel free to message and ask advice without obligation to proceed. No pressure, just a calm conversation to help you understand your options.
MIAM
Understanding the first step.
A Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting gives you the chance to speak privately about your situation, understand the mediation process and consider whether mediation is suitable for your family.
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Who attends?
MIAMs are usually individual appointments at the outset, helping each person discuss their situation confidentially and understand the next steps.
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Why begin here?
It provides clarity, reduces uncertainty and helps establish whether a constructive mediation process can move matters forward.
Family Mediation
Support across the issues that matter most.
Mediation can help families discuss arrangements in a more constructive way, keeping the process focused, impartial and practical.
Child Arrangements
Supportive discussions around routines, parenting time, holidays, schooling and communication.
Financial Discussions
Space to explore finances, property and wider arrangements in a calm and structured setting.
Separation Support
Guidance to help reduce conflict, improve communication and establish practical next steps.
Online Appointments
Flexible meetings designed to make professional mediation support easier to access.
How it works
A clear and manageable process.
Initial enquiry
MIAM appointment
Mediation sessions
Practical outcomes
Pricing
Transparent pricing with no hidden surprises.
We believe families should understand the costs of mediation from the outset and be aware of any support that may be available.
MIAM
Initial Assessment Meeting
45 minutes
£95
Book a MIAM
Mediation Session
Family mediation sessions
£120
per person per hour
Session length is usually 2 hours
MOJ Vouchers & Legal Aid
Support may be available
- Please ask about the £500 Ministry of Justice voucher towards the cost of family mediation.
- Please also ask if you believe you may be eligible for legal aid.
VMEmediation works in partnership with Consensus Mediators for Legal Aid and MOJ vouchers.
Need help understanding costs?
Contact Us
Ask us before you proceed.
We are happy to explain the mediation process, likely timescales and whether financial support may be available.
Resources & Support
Helpful guidance before, during and after mediation.
A strong mediation experience is supported by access to clear information, good preparation and signposting when additional help is needed.
Preparing for a MIAM
Understand what to expect, what questions you may want to ask and how to feel more prepared.
Request guidanceParenting Conversations
Helpful prompts for discussing routines, holidays, schooling and communication constructively.
Speak to usSeparation & Next Steps
Practical support to help you move from uncertainty towards structure and clearer decisions.
Book an appointmentCommon questions
The aim is to help people have more productive conversations and work towards practical arrangements in a neutral setting.
No. Mediation is a process. The first step is often simply creating space to understand the issues and begin constructive dialogue.
Yes. The website is set up to present online appointments as an accessible and flexible option for clients.
Contact Us
Start with a conversation.
Whether you are ready to book a MIAM or simply want to understand your options, VME Mediation offers a calm first step.
Emailinfo@vmemediation.co.uk
Phone07730 748250
AppointmentsIn person and online by arrangement
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Choose a suitable time online.
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